Dear Connecticut, I owe you an apology. For three decades I hated driving through your state on road trips. The traffic was always awful, the construction was always awful and your state was always the worst part of any road trip to NYC and points south along the Atlantic Coast. I am sorry for being so mean. This past trip combined with things I have heard from other travelers have convinced me that things have changed for the better.
I have been a long time fan of road trips, The luxury of living in the Northeast of the US allows me to visit many great places without needing a multi-day car ride. I have driven down to DC, Philly, and NYC many a time on a whim, just because they are accessible.
I have taken road trips to visit friends, a ton to see concerts, a few (not enough) for sporting events, and to just get away for a bit. They are a less expensive, more flexible form of travel. Barring traffic and weather, you are in charge. Are you going there as quickly as possible, with minimal potty breaks, or are you taking your time and stopping off to see sights along the way? You have so many choices and you get to decide as you go.
This past weekend I drove down to Philly with a buddy of mine to watch a soccer match. Not just any soccer match! No, it was a pre-season friendly. Did you think I was hyping things up? No, I am here to tell the truth. I drove 6 hours each way to watch a Championship level team play a preseason game.
Let me explain before you stop reading and before Alex decides to never ask me to write her another blog post again. I am a Sunderland fan. I have been a Sunderland AFC fan for 10+ years. I have seen them get relegated in back to back seasons. And I got to see them win promotion on two amazing last minute goals in the playoffs. I saw them qualify for Europe for their first time ever, during their first year back in the Premier League.
This is not a sports post, so if you feel lost, it’s ok. I have seen them suck and seen them do things the club has never been able to achieve before. I have ridden the roller-coaster of fandom with this team. I have cried the saddest and happiest of tears. So of course I was going to try and see them during the preseason tour of the US.

They played Wrexham FC at Subaru stadium outside Philadelphia. It was basically a home game for Wrexham and it was likely because some famous guy from Philly named Rob might be there. He was. Briefly, he went home sad as Sunderland won 1-0 and dominated the entire game, without their best player.
The game was fun. And not just because my team won. The weather was great, the stadium was nice. And everyone was there for a good time. The smaller, purpose built stadiums of the modern MLS are great venues for the game. You are right on top of the action and you can hear all the fans and all the chanting. The lack of empty seats always makes any event at a stadium much more enjoyable. An attendance of ~17,000 out of a capacity of ~19,000 was a nice thing to see for a preseason friendly.
Attendance was nice because both teams have well regarded documentary series about them, Sunderland ‘Til I Die and Welcome to Wrexham, The latter inspired by the former, according to Rob Mac himself. And I would recommend both, even to the non-soccer/sports fan. Also, soccer fans in the US just want more. It often looked like a concert of a sub-genre where people choose their shirts from other bands of the sub-genre. I often play a game in WDW where I spot the Soccer Jersey, and playing at this match was a blast. I saw half the Premier League represented with scatterings of random clubs from across the MLS, Bundesliga and Serie A. This of course is on top of the big obvious ones you’ll always see like Barcelona, Madrid, Bayern, and PSG. Shout out to the woman in Rose Lavelle USWNT jersey for making sure the women were represented. I wish I had worn my Legacy hat.
Philadelphia is a great city. I enjoy almost every minute I am in Philly. We did not get a chance to explore it as much as I’d like because we ended up staying closer to the stadium, in Wilmington, DE. Wilmington was also nice and we were not the only ones who traveled for the game there. We ran into Wrexham fans who traveled from around Philadelphia and from elsewhere in the US and plenty of Sunderland fans who came from the UK. In fairness, I am sure there were Wrexham fans who came over from Wales, but I was not on the lookout for them. I had my eyes on other Sunderland fans from the UK, like they were long lost cousins.
We talked to a father and son at a bar in Wilmington and we had a nice chat about how excited we are about the upcoming season. At the game, while waiting to buy merch, we chatted with the man behind us who came over for a month with his family. I was talking about how this might be my only chance to see my team as talking my wife into traveling to the northeast of England could be a tough sell.
He was quick to correct me. Extolling the beauty of St Andrew’s Church. Calling it one of the most gorgeous churches in England. Upon further research he’s made a good point.

We ate no cheesesteaks, but we did partake of some local bars in both Philly and Wilmington. My fair share of Yuengling’s were consumed. I made sure that a pilgrimage to Wawa’s occurred on the way home. We did properly respect the city as much as we could.
As I said at the top, my anger at Connecticut was well earned. It was nice to see that I have to change my opinion there with how kind the state was. It really is a pretty state with its own fun, non-casino based activities worth exploring. The coast is as pretty as any in New England. The hills and trees flow right down from the Connecticut River. One long valley and forest that feels like home. Sincerely Nutmeg state, I do apologize for decades of slander, and likely some libel as well. Your state is lovely and next time I will be sure to stay and visit and not just drive through. We’ll save driving through for New Jersey.



















































